- foot fetishists
- dress-up (corsets, heels and stockings)
- erotic photography
- role play
- breath play
- needle play
- CBT (look it up--but be warned it *is* extreme and you might see something VERY graphic)
These are just a very, very few examples.
One's level of involvment is nothing but a preference. The kink community is very welcoming and very accepting. I am not into the extreme end of kink, but I don't try to make others wrong for enjoying and engaging in the extreme stuff. The saying is "YKINMK" or "Your kink is not my kink." It's a "to each his own" type of philosophy that I appreciate.
I'd be more than happy to answer questions or give you website addresses that can help you understand all of this. And if you are curious about the kink lifestyle, don't be shy...the water's fine! ;)